Monday, 14 September 2009

  • Boys Boys Boys...

    So recently I got a bit upset with this guy. 
    We have had a bit of a history.. 
    We both liked eachother but for a few reasons a relationship didn't ever really work out with us. 
    He is very sarcastic, and always comments on the things I say and do in front of other people.
    Though he is soo cute, and sometimes we get along so so well - we just 'get' eachother in so many ways.
    Usually I just take the sarcastic comments and just laugh them off. 
    I know he means no harm most of the time.
    And thats the thing - "most of the time".. 
    We havn't really been too close lately..

    But the other day, I just cracked.  
    I had been having such a great night, he was there though we we're getting along too well.
    Then, he said something to me, infront of a few other people, which was a joke to him, but I didn't take it that way. It was some smart comment which made me look like an idiot about something I had said.
    It hurt.
    Sometimes I'm a sensitive person and can take things personally - like alot of girls.

    So anyway, for the rest of the night, I did the silent treatment waiting until I could catch my lift home. I wasn't happy.

    Long story short, I asked him if he had had anything against me to have been making smart comments about me and the things I said and done.
    The answer was one of "I'm sorry, what have I done?"

    Arh!!

    So I explained..
    He then replied, asking what specifically had made me upset, that he never meant to hurt me, and that he doesnt understand why I take things personally.
    He said he was sorry and then said "I wish we could not interact at all - for ages. It will do us good in the long run."

    So its been a week and we have seen eachother about half a dozen times but have not spoken at all.

    I feel really sad, and I don't really know what to do.
    Send him an email? Confront him? Leave him alone?

    I hate to see him upset. 
    Ironic?

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